Jayden's mummy :- "Today when we reached the school, Jayden again showed some signs of reluctance of going into the class. So hubby handed him over to me and i hugged him inside the classroom. All the other kids were playing wid toys and he didn't show any signs of interest but to continue clinging onto me.
The principal was there and she greeted Jayden. He just ignored her and pretend to look elsewhere. Aunt Joan tell us tat he owest pretend not to see her. Hahaha.... Then Jayden was looking at the toy cars on the floor, so Aunt Joan asked another kid if he's wiling to share the cars with ahDen. The kid nodded okie and ahDen was looking at the toy cars. He seemed alright so i told him tat mummy gotta go now, but i'll be back to pick him up later. He didn't respond to my statement although i tried to tell him tat again. So i assumed tat it's okie for me to leave.
When i left the room, he turned and saw tat i wasn't there, Jayden started crying. Tis is the first time he cried when it's time to part wid his parents. Hubby & I juz walked off and hid outside the classroom. We saw tat Aunt Joan was talking to him but still he dashed outside of the class. Later a male teacher was entertaining ahDen wid some kind of toys on his hands, and ahDen juz stood there looking at him. He had stopped crying and I dare not let him sees me juz in case he started crying again. When i saw tat he was okie, i left. Hubby said tat we shall return to the school earlier today to check on him.
We reached the school pretty early today, before 11.30am. We stood outside, not wanting to disturb the other kids. We were chatting wid an auntie there, who was waiting for her boss's daughter. She told us ahDen was very happy there, keep on running around the school like it is his house and he loves to play hide and seek. Then she told us tat we can ask the principal if they'll recruit our kid today. So in we went, to spy on little Jayden. Hubby was hiding outside the classroom again and peeping inside. One of the teacher saw hubby and she called Jayden and tell him tat his daddy is here. Then we saw Jayden came out of the classroom and he came running. He was delighted when he found us hiding in the corner. Hahaha.... he's so cute!
When i ask Aunt Joan about whether ahDen's being recruited, she told me tat she need to discuss further wid me. Sigh! Bad sign. So hubby took the desperate ahDen to the car first, and i went in the office wid the principal. Aunt Joan say from wat she observed these few days, Jayden got a bit of 'autism'. She said tat he'll scream, not really socialising wid the other kids, then it's either no-focus or too-focus onto sth. Besides tat he's always running around, and being hyperactive. She said from wat she would say is he's categorise into the 'special children' group. I was really holding back tears. I wasn't worried if the school doesn't want him, juz tat i was worried for ahDen.
Aunt Joan recommended us to bring ahDen for an assessment first before they consider if they'll take him in. Sigh! She gave me a number of another member of the church whose running this centre for special children. I've made an appointment. Tmr afternoon we'll bring ahDen there for an assessment. We all do pray hard tat he's fine. No matter wat, we still love Jayden very much! "
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
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